To the Guys, 4 Steps to Get Back With Your Ex

Do you desire to get back with your ex? Are you feeling sorry that your relationship came to an end? Here are four steps to help you get back with your ex.

1. Don't be jealous of her. You need to keep in mind that your relationship has come to an end, so your input regarding her decisions is probably not valued at this time. If you want to get back with your ex, you cannot reveal any jealousy. Jealously may only remind her of the reasons why you two broke up in the first place.

2. Give her a call every now and again. Keep yourself on her radar by calling periodically to say hi and to see how things are going in her life. However, avoid calling repeatedly in one day or frequently in a week. This suggests desperation, and most females do not like clingy men.

3. Remember her birthday. A birthday is a great reason to get back in touch. People like to be remembered and celebrated on their birthday, so treat her like a princess (that is, as much as she will allow you to do so).

4. Work on your personality and your appearance to make yourself more desirable. If you stopped working on your hobbies, get back into them. If you're not in shape, get into shape; if you are, stay in shape. Recall those things she mentioned that she liked about you and improve on them. Add to them as well. Since you have a history, if you make yourself more alluring, she will eventually want you back.

So if you follow these four steps--showing no jealousy, occasional phone calls, remembering her birthday, and working on yourself--you can reclaim a relationship with your ex, except this time it will be stronger, happier, and healthier.